I’ve met Someone Online who Seems Perfect for me, but When we met in Person, Things Felt Awkward and Forced. i’m Heartbroken and Feel Like i Failed. What Should i do?

Dear friend, please don’t be too hard on yourself. What you’re experiencing is completely normal and doesn’t mean you’ve failed. Virtual connections often create an idealized version of people, and it’s natural to feel a bit of a letdown when reality doesn’t match those expectations. Remember, it’s not about finding fault with either of you – sometimes chemistry just works differently in person. Take this as a valuable learning experience. Be proud that you had the courage to take that step and meet someone new. This doesn’t mean all your online connections will have the same outcome. Keep an open heart, but also try to approach new relationships with realistic expectations. You’re growing through this experience, and that growth will help you build even more meaningful connections in the future. You’re doing just fine!